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Family Guide

AI for Parents

Navigate your child's AI world with confidence — from safety settings to honest homework conversations.

Welcome

Introductions

What's your biggest question or worry about your child and AI?

AI can help us think, but it does not do our thinking for us. That's the family rule that changes everything.

The philosophy behind this course

Agenda

Today's 6 Modules

  • Module 1 — AI Through Your Child's Eyes
  • Module 2 — Age-by-Age AI Guidance
  • Module 3 — AI Safety & Privacy
  • Module 4 — Homework, Creativity & AI Ethics
  • Module 5 — Wellbeing, Screen Time & Companion AI
  • Module 6 — Building an AI-Literate Family

Who This Course Is For

  • Parents who want to understand what their children are doing with AI
  • Parents who worry about safety but don't want to ban everything
  • Families who want practical rules, not panic
  • Anyone who wants to turn AI into a learning aid, not a substitute for thinking
  • No technical background required — this is for real parents

79%

of Australian children aged 10–17 have used an AI assistant or companion — eSafety Commissioner, 2026

Module 1

AI Through Your Child's Eyes

See AI the way your children see it — and move from fear to confident guidance.

01

AI Through Your Child's Eyes

Objectives

What You'll Learn

  • Understand what kids are actually doing with AI today
  • Know the platforms your children are using
  • Classify AI tools into three safety buckets
  • Close the parent-child perception gap
Reality Check

What's Actually Happening

The data might surprise you.

Australian Children & AI — 2026

  • 79% of children aged 10–17 have used an AI assistant or companion
  • 66% used one in the past four weeks
  • 20% use AI daily or more often
  • 8% have used an AI companion specifically
  • 47% of child users reported negative feelings after using one
  • More than half reported "companion-type" uses like asking for advice or talking about feelings

The Parent Perception Gap

  • 67% of kids use AI often or sometimes — but only 49% of parents think so
  • Parents overestimate companion and image use
  • Kids mainly use AI for facts and homework — parents don't realise
  • 51% of parents say their teen uses chatbots — teen self-report is 64%
  • Four in ten parents have never talked with their teen about chatbots
  • Source: Common Sense Media & Pew Research, 2025–2026

Parents often underestimate how much their children use AI — and misunderstand what they're using it for.

Common Sense Media, 2025

Platforms

Where Kids Meet AI

Not all AI tools are created equal.

The Three-Bucket Framework

  • Bucket 1 — Learning-First Tools: Khan Academy Kids, Khanmigo, NSWEduChat
  • Bucket 2 — General-Purpose Assistants: ChatGPT, Gemini — useful but need household rules
  • Bucket 3 — Companion/Entertainment: Character.AI — higher risk, not for emotional support
  • Teach your family to classify every AI tool into one of these buckets
  • The bucket determines the level of supervision needed
  • Learning tools first, general tools with rules, companion tools with extreme caution

ChatGPT — What Parents Need to Know

  • Age minimum: 13+, with parental consent for 13–17
  • New parental controls: sensitive content, quiet hours, training toggle
  • Strengths: broad capability, strong household controls
  • Risks: hallucinations, not designed for under-13 direct use
  • Text, image, voice, and file capabilities
  • Action: set up parental controls before first use

Gemini — What Parents Need to Know

  • Under-13 possible on supervised accounts via Family Link
  • Google ecosystem integration: SafeSearch, app approvals, site blocking
  • Free tier available; AI Pro/Ultra plans are adult-only (18+)
  • Strengths: strong family controls, Google integration
  • Risks: advanced features vary by region and age
  • Action: configure Family Link before enabling Gemini access

Character.AI — The Parent Red Flag

  • Age minimum: 13+, separate teen experience
  • Creative and engaging — but unsuitable as a primary learning or wellbeing tool
  • eSafety found companion-style use is the biggest practical red flag for 2026
  • Parental insights added, open-ended chat removed for under-18
  • Risk: emotional dependency, time-intensive, not educational
  • Recommendation: treat as higher-risk entertainment, not as a safe learning tool

School-Managed AI Tools

  • NSWEduChat: secure, filtered, no training on student input, free for NSW public school students
  • Khanmigo: pedagogically bounded tutoring, parent oversight features
  • Khan Academy Kids: free, no targeted ads, minimal data collection, great for under-8s
  • School tools are assessed against safety, cyber security, privacy and pedagogical standards
  • Rule: for schoolwork, always prefer school-approved tools first
  • Disclose AI use whenever school rules require it
Activity

Platform Audit

10 min

Check your child's devices right now: 1. Which AI tools are installed? 2. Which bucket does each one fall into? 3. Are parental controls or supervised accounts set up? 4. Has your child used any companion-style AI? This is your starting point — no judgement, just awareness.

Myths

Common Misconceptions

What most parents get wrong about kids and AI.

What Parents Get Wrong

  • "My child doesn't use AI" — 79% of 10–17 year olds already do
  • "AI is just ChatGPT" — AI is in maps, search, games, recommendations, filters
  • "Banning it keeps them safe" — they'll use it at school and friends' houses anyway
  • "AI does their thinking for them" — it depends on how it's used
  • "I need to be technical to guide them" — you just need a decision framework
  • "AI is too dangerous for kids" — the real risk is unguided use, not use itself

The Generation Gap

  • Your children are digital natives — AI is just another tool to them
  • They often know more about how to use AI than you do
  • But they rarely understand privacy, bias, or verification
  • Your job is not to be the expert — it's to be the guide
  • The best approach: learn together, set rules together
  • Frame AI conversations as collaborative, not punitive
Activity

Talk to Your Child

8 min

Have an honest conversation with your child today: 1. "What AI tools do you use?" 2. "What do you use them for?" 3. "Has anything felt weird or uncomfortable?" 4. "What do you wish I knew about AI?" Listen first. Their answers will probably surprise you.

From Fear to Confidence

  • Fear-based parenting doesn't work — it just goes underground
  • Confidence comes from understanding, not from banning
  • You don't need to know everything — you need a framework
  • The framework: understand → classify → supervise → review
  • Start with one tool, one conversation, one rule
  • Build from there — this course gives you the structure
Module 2

Age-by-Age AI Guidance

Practical, developmental guidance from toddlers to teenagers.

02

Age-by-Age AI Guidance

Recap

What We Covered

  • 79% of Australian children aged 10–17 already use AI
  • Parents consistently underestimate their children's AI use
  • Three buckets: learning tools, general assistants, companion/entertainment
  • School-approved tools should always come first for schoolwork
Objectives

What You'll Learn

  • Match AI guidance to your child's developmental stage
  • Know what's appropriate at each age
  • Choose the right tools and supervision level
  • Build age-appropriate family AI habits
Framework

A Developmental Approach

The right guidance depends on the age.

Ages 4–7: Concepts Without Accounts

  • No personal AI accounts — adult-mediated and mostly offline
  • Teach: notice AI in everyday life (maps, search, games, recommendations)
  • Teach: the difference between a human helper and a machine helper
  • Teach: machines follow patterns and rules — they can be wrong
  • Teach: "never share private information" as a core habit
  • Mode: shared exploration, pattern games, stories and talk about privacy

Ages 4–7: Family Activities

  • Sorting Game (25 min): sort household objects by colour/shape, change the rule, discuss how machines "learn" from examples
  • "Human or Machine?" poster: find 5 examples of AI around the house
  • Story time: read stories about robots and helpers — discuss what's real
  • Co-viewing: watch a kids' show together and spot where AI helps the characters
  • Key rule: everything is done together, with a parent guiding the conversation
  • Output: a simple "AI is…" poster or drawing

Ages 8–11: Shared Exploration

  • Shared use with an adult — bounded tasks and short sessions
  • Teach: generative AI is not a search engine
  • Teach: how to ask clearer questions
  • Teach: compare an AI answer with a trusted source
  • Teach: identify simple bias or unfairness
  • Teach: use AI for brainstorming without copying the output

Ages 8–11: Family Activities

  • Search or Generate? (35 min): test the difference between a search result and an AI answer
  • Ask, Check, Improve (45 min): ask AI for 3 facts, verify each, rewrite the prompt, compare
  • Prompt Ladder: turn vague prompts into specific prompts together
  • Creativity with guardrails: brainstorm a story with AI, then write the final version yourself
  • Key rule: always verify at least one source before using an AI answer
  • Output: fact-check log and "AI helped me…" note

Ages 12–15: Guided Independence

  • Guided independent use with explicit rules, disclosure and review
  • Teach: evaluate outputs for accuracy, sources and tone
  • Teach: understand training data, bias, privacy and deepfakes
  • Teach: use AI to plan and draft while disclosing use
  • Teach: compare school-approved tools with consumer tools
  • Mode: increasing autonomy with clear accountability

Ages 12–15: Family Activities

  • Homework Helper Audit (60 min): get AI explanation, mark correct/vague/wrong, improve with follow-up, disclose contribution
  • Deepfake Detective (60 min): compare real and synthetic media, identify cues, discuss sharing responsibility
  • Privacy & Data audit: review platform terms, training settings, memory and deletion
  • Failure Casebook: collect examples of hallucination, overconfidence and missing sources
  • Key rule: disclose AI use where school rules require it
  • Output: annotated answers and personal settings audit

Ages 16–18: Independent Use

  • Independent use with reflective oversight and assessment requirements
  • Teach: build robust workflows and assess platform terms
  • Teach: design prompts and critique outputs across modalities
  • Teach: discuss copyright, accountability and societal impact
  • Teach: complete project-based work with transparent AI use
  • Mode: trusted independence with monthly family check-ins

Ages 16–18: Family Activities

  • Family AI Policy Sprint (75 min): teen drafts a one-page family AI agreement
  • Tool Comparison: compare 3 tools by terms, privacy, quality, cost
  • AI Workflow Design: build a study/revision workflow using AI ethically
  • Ethics Debate: discuss a real AI controversy and argue both sides
  • Key rule: the teen leads — the parent coaches and reviews
  • Output: one-page family AI policy and personal AI playbook
Activity

Identify Your Stage

8 min

For each of your children: 1. Which age band are they in? (4–7, 8–11, 12–15, 16–18) 2. What mode of AI use is appropriate? (adult-led, shared, guided, independent) 3. What's one thing you can do this week to match the guidance? 4. What's one boundary you need to set or update? Write it down — this becomes your family AI plan.

The Family AI Decision Flow

  • Step 1: Is the task age-appropriate and low-stakes?
  • If No → use adult mediation or a school-approved tool
  • If Yes → choose a child-appropriate tool
  • Step 2: Ask a bounded question — do not enter sensitive personal data
  • Step 3: Check the answer against a trusted human or source
  • Step 4: Still accurate, fair and useful? → Use it with reflection. If not → revise or stop.

Recommended Tools by Age

  • Ages 4–7: Khan Academy Kids (free, safe, no ads), co-viewing only
  • Ages 8–11: Khan Academy Kids + school tools, shared ChatGPT/Gemini with parent
  • Ages 12–15: School tools + supervised ChatGPT/Gemini, avoid Character.AI
  • Ages 16–18: Full access with family agreement, privacy settings reviewed monthly
  • All ages: school-approved tools first for schoolwork
  • All ages: "humans for feelings, AI for tasks" as a core boundary

The right guidance depends on the child, not just the technology. Start where they are.

UNESCO AI Competency Framework for Students

47%

of Australian child AI users reported negative feelings after using AI — eSafety Commissioner, 2026

Module 3

AI Safety & Privacy

Protect your family with practical settings, data knowledge, and clear rules.

03

AI Safety & Privacy

Recap

What We Covered

1Developmental approach: match guidance to your child's age

2Younger children: concepts first, shared use, no personal accounts

3Teens: guided independence with disclosure and verification

4Family decision flow: age-appropriate → bounded question → check → reflect

Objectives

What You'll Learn

1Set up parental controls on major AI platforms

2Know what data to never share with AI

3Understand how AI tools handle your family's data

4Create a practical safety checklist for your household

Settings

Platform Safety Settings

The controls that exist — and what they can't do.

ChatGPT Parental Controls

1Link your account to your teen's (13–17) for parental oversight

2Manage: sensitive content reduction, image generation, voice mode

3Manage: model training toggle — turn off so chats aren't used to train

4Manage: memory — turn off to prevent personalisation beyond sessions

5Manage: quiet hours — set bedtime restrictions

6Important: parental controls do NOT give you full conversation access

Google Family Link & Gemini

1Family Link controls: app approvals, SafeSearch, site blocking, screen time

2Enable or disable Gemini access for supervised children

3On-device sensitive image warnings in Google Messages

4Configure before allowing Gemini access — not after

5For under-13s: supervised accounts with parent approval required

6Free tier only — AI Pro/Ultra plans are 18+ only

"Filters are guardrails, not supervision. They reduce risk — they don't eliminate it."

— The practical teaching point

Activity

Set Up Controls

12 min

Set up parental controls right now:

1ChatGPT: Settings → Data Controls → turn off model training

2Google: Family Link → enable/disable Gemini → configure SafeSearch

3Character.AI: enable parental insights (if your child uses it)

4Check: is model training turned off on every platform?

If your child doesn't have accounts yet — great. Set these up BEFORE they do.

Privacy

Data Privacy for Families

What your family should never share with AI.

Data You Should NEVER Put Into AI

Full names combined with addresses, school names or ages

Passwords, login credentials, or access tokens

Health details, medical records, or mental health information

School records, grades, or teacher assessments

Private family problems, conflicts, or financial details

Photos of children with identifying information

How AI Tools Handle Your Data

1By default, most consumer tools use your inputs to train future models

2ChatGPT: Settings → Data Controls → Turn off model training

3Temporary Chats: deleted after 30 days and not used for training

4Gemini: Activity → Turn off Gemini Apps Activity

5Khan Academy Kids: limited child data, no targeted ads, deletion on request

6NSWEduChat: student input is NOT used for training — the safest option

The Parent Heuristic

For any AI tool your child uses, check five things:

1Age minimum — is your child actually old enough?

2Training default — is chat data being used to improve the model?

3Memory default — is the tool remembering across sessions?

4Deletion path — can you delete your child's data if needed?

5Account type — is it school-managed or consumer-managed?

Activity

Settings Audit

10 min

For every AI tool your child currently uses:

1Is model training turned off?

2Is memory turned off (or reviewed)?

3Do you know the deletion process?

4Is the account supervised or consumer?

Create a simple table: Tool | Age OK? | Training Off? | Memory Off? | Supervised?

Legal

Privacy Law for Parents

What Australian law says — and what's coming.

Privacy Law in Australia

1The Privacy Act already applies to covered entities handling children's data

2OAIC's 2026 draft Children's Online Privacy Code raises the standard further

3The Code requires: child's best interests considered, stronger consent requirements

4Accessible privacy notices, deletion rights, restrictions on targeted advertising

5Final code due by 10 December 2026

6In the US: COPPA applies to services directed at or knowingly collecting from under-13s

School AI Rules Matter

1NSW: approved AI tools are assessed against safety, privacy and pedagogical standards

2NSWEduChat: student input is not used to train the system

3Schools increasingly require disclosure when AI is used for assessment

4Practical parent rule: use school-approved tools first for school tasks

5Disclose AI use whenever school rules require it

6If unsure about school policy — ask. Most schools now have one.

The Family Safety Checklist

Age minimum checked before signup

Supervision/parental controls enabled

Training setting reviewed and turned off where appropriate

Memory reviewed — turned off for minors unless needed

Sensitive data rule agreed — create a "never paste" list

Verification habit taught — require one external check

Red Flags for Parents

Your child talks to AI about emotions instead of people

They're secretive about AI conversations

They're using AI late at night or during emotional distress

They believe AI "understands" them or is their "friend"

They resist checking AI outputs against real sources

They share personal information without thinking twice

Module 4

Homework, Creativity & AI Ethics

Navigate the tricky questions about school, learning, and honest AI use.

04

Homework, Creativity & AI Ethics

Recap

What We Covered

1Set up parental controls on ChatGPT, Gemini, and other tools

2Never paste sensitive personal or family data into AI

3Check training, memory, and deletion settings on every platform

4Australian privacy law is strengthening — the Children's Code arrives December 2026

Objectives

What You'll Learn

1Know when AI homework help is appropriate and when it's not

2Understand academic integrity in the AI era

3Build verification and fact-checking habits

4Navigate school AI policies with confidence

Learning

AI & Homework

The question every parent is asking.

When AI Homework Help Is OK

Explaining a concept they don't understand — like a tutor

Brainstorming ideas before they start writing

Checking their own work for errors or gaps

Creating study questions or practice quizzes

Structuring an essay plan or project outline

Key: AI helps them think better, not think less

When AI Homework Help Is NOT OK

Copying and submitting AI-generated text as their own work

Using AI to write entire essays, reports, or assignments

Submitting AI answers without verifying or understanding them

Hiding AI use when school rules require disclosure

Relying on AI instead of developing their own thinking

Key: if AI did the thinking, the child didn't learn

Academic Integrity in the AI Era

1The old rules still apply: don't pass off someone else's work as your own

2AI is "someone else" in this context — even though it feels different

3Schools are updating policies — most now address AI use explicitly

4The safest approach: disclose AI use whenever it contributed to the work

5Teach the difference between AI-assisted and AI-substituted

6Frame it as honesty, not punishment — kids respond better to values than rules

Bad Use vs Good Use

BAD: "Write me a 500-word essay on climate change for Year 9 Science"

GOOD: "I'm writing a Year 9 essay on climate change. I've drafted an outline with three main points. Can you help me find weaknesses in my argument and suggest one more piece of evidence I should look for?"

The first replaces thinking. The second enhances it.

Activity

Homework Helper Audit

15 min

Try this with your child tonight:

1Pick a homework topic they're working on

2Ask AI to explain one concept (not answer the question)

3Together, check the explanation against a textbook or teacher notes

4If AI got something wrong — great! That's the learning moment

Discuss: what did AI add? What did we still need to do ourselves?

Schools

The School Context

What Australian schools are doing about AI.

What Australian Schools Say

1Australian Curriculum now explicitly includes AI literacy

2Students should understand: AI is not a search engine

3Students should learn: how AI works, how to interact with it, what it can and cannot do

4NSW parent guidance frames AI as something families should discuss

5Schools increasingly require disclosure of AI use in assessment

6Many schools now have published AI policies — ask for yours

NSWEduChat — A Model Approach

1Available to NSW public school students in Years 5–12

2Secure and private: multi-layered content filtering

3Student input is NOT used to train the model

4School login required — no consumer account needed

5Free access for eligible students

6Shows what "school-managed AI" looks like done well

Teaching Disclosure

1Teach your child to add an "AI helped me..." note to any work AI contributed to

2Example: "I used ChatGPT to brainstorm ideas and check my argument structure"

3This is not cheating — it's honest and increasingly expected

4Academic work: always disclose per institution/school policy

5Frame disclosure as a strength, not a confession

6If unsure about the rules, ask the teacher first

Talking to Your Child's School

?Ask: "Does the school have an AI policy for students?"

?Ask: "Which AI tools are approved for classroom/homework use?"

?Ask: "What disclosure is required when students use AI?"

?Ask: "How can I support this at home?"

!If the school doesn't have a policy yet — your question will help start the conversation

!Offer to share what you've learned in this course

Activity

Write Disclosure Policy

10 min

Write a simple disclosure template your child can use:

"In this [assignment/project], I used [tool name] to help me [what it did]. I then [what I did myself] to complete the work."

Practice: have your child write one for a recent piece of homework.

Goal: make disclosure as natural as citing a book or website.

Learning

Fostering Genuine Learning

AI should enhance thinking, not replace it.

The Verification Habit

1Rule: never use an AI answer for schoolwork without checking one source

2Sources: textbook, teacher notes, official website, trusted adult

3Teach: AI can be fluent AND wrong — confidence is not accuracy

4Teach: the more specific a claim (dates, names, numbers), the more you should check

5Make it routine: "What did AI say? What does the book say? Do they match?"

6This single habit prevents most AI-related homework problems

Creativity & AI

1AI is an excellent brainstorming partner — it generates options fast

2But the creative choices belong to your child

3Good pattern: AI generates 5 ideas → child picks one → child develops it themselves

4Bad pattern: AI writes the story → child submits the story

5Encourage: "Use AI to start thinking, then take over"

6The goal: AI as a springboard, not a crutch

"Use AI to start thinking, then take over. The best learning happens when AI opens the door — and your child walks through it."
Activity

Ask, Check, Improve

12 min

Do this activity with your child (ages 8+):

1Pick a topic they're interested in

2Ask AI for three facts about it

3Verify each fact using a book, teacher site, or museum page

4Rewrite the prompt to be more specific

5Compare the second answer — is it better?

Output: a fact-check log they can keep and reuse.

Module 5

Wellbeing, Screen Time & Companion AI

Digital wellbeing, emotional boundaries, and the risks of AI companions.

05

Wellbeing & Companion AI

Recap

What We Covered

  • AI homework help is OK for explanation and brainstorming — not for substitution
  • Disclosure should be natural and expected, not punitive
  • Australian schools increasingly require AI use policies
  • Verification habit: always check one source before using AI answers
Objectives

What You'll Learn

  • Understand current digital wellbeing guidance (it's not just "limit screen time")
  • Recognise the specific risks of AI companion tools
  • Set emotional support boundaries with your children
  • Create practical bedtime and usage rules
Wellbeing

Digital Wellbeing in 2026

The guidance has changed — it's more nuanced than hours per day.

Screen Time — What the Evidence Says

  • The American Academy of Pediatrics says there is NOT enough evidence for one universal time limit
  • Australia's eSafety stresses quality and context matter more than raw hours
  • Good screen time: safe, interactive, often shared with others
  • Low-quality use: passive scrolling, persuasive features, AI-generated feeds
  • Under-5s: WHO recommends no sedentary screen time for 1-year-olds, max 1 hour for 2–4
  • The question is not "how much" but "what kind"

The 5 Cs Framework

  • Child — every child is different; what works for one may not work for another
  • Content — is it educational, creative, or passive consumption?
  • Calm — is the child using tech to regulate emotions they should process?
  • Crowding Out — is screen time replacing sleep, exercise, family time, or friendships?
  • Communication — are you talking about what they're doing online?
  • Use these 5 Cs instead of rigid hour limits — American Academy of Pediatrics

Quality Over Quantity

  • 30 minutes of AI-assisted learning with a parent > 2 hours of passive scrolling
  • Co-using AI together as a family counts as quality screen time
  • The verification activities in this course are active, not passive
  • Watch for: is the child creating, or just consuming?
  • Watch for: is the child thinking, or just accepting?
  • The goal is intentional use, not zero use
Warning

AI Companions

The biggest red flag for Australian parents in 2026.

What AI Companions Are

  • AI systems designed for ongoing conversation, emotional connection, and relationship
  • Character.AI is the most prominent example — millions of teen users
  • Children use them to: ask for advice, talk about feelings, seek health/wellbeing advice
  • They feel like friends — but they are statistical prediction engines
  • They cannot genuinely understand, care about, or protect your child
  • The emotional engagement is by design — it drives usage and retention

What eSafety Found

  • 8% of Australian children aged 10–17 have used an AI companion specifically
  • More than half of child AI users reported companion-type uses
  • 47% reported negative feelings at some point after using AI
  • Some teen users reported exposure to sexualised or harmful content
  • eSafety found companion-style use is the most practical red flag for parents
  • Source: eSafety Commissioner transparency notices, 2025–2026

Humans for feelings. AI for tasks. That's the boundary that protects your child.

Setting Emotional Boundaries

  • AI should never replace human connection for emotional support
  • If your child is upset, sad, anxious, or confused — they need a person
  • "I know it feels like AI understands you — but it doesn't. It predicts what sounds right."
  • Warning signs: child prefers AI to friends, uses AI late at night for comfort
  • Response: don't panic — have a calm conversation about what they're looking for
  • Offer: if they need someone to talk to, help them find a real person (friend, counsellor, you)

Bedtime & Usage Rules

  • Night-time AI use tends to be more dysregulated and emotionally driven
  • Set quiet hours: devices out of bedrooms from a set time (use platform tools)
  • ChatGPT: quiet hours feature can restrict access at set times
  • Google Family Link: set screen time limits and bedtime schedules
  • Character.AI: time-spent notifications available (but teens can dismiss them)
  • The best rule: no AI conversations after bedtime — use humans, not chatbots, for care
Activity

Wellbeing Audit

10 min

Assess your family's current AI wellbeing: 1. Is your child using any companion-style AI tools? 2. Does AI use happen late at night or during emotional moments? 3. Are quiet hours or bedtime restrictions set on all devices? 4. Has your child ever said AI 'understands' them or is their 'friend'? If you answered yes to #4 — it's time for a conversation, not a ban.

20%

of Australian child AI users use AI daily or more often — eSafety Commissioner, 2026

Module 6

Building an AI-Literate Family

Turn understanding into lasting family practice.

06

AI-Literate Family

Recap

What We Covered

  • Digital wellbeing is about quality, not just hours — use the 5 Cs
  • AI companions are the biggest red flag: emotional dependency without real understanding
  • "Humans for feelings, AI for tasks" is the core boundary
  • Set bedtime restrictions and quiet hours on all AI-enabled devices
Objectives

What You'll Learn

  • Build a practical family AI quick-start system
  • Create a family AI agreement
  • Establish monthly review habits
  • Access free resources for ongoing learning
System

Your Family AI System

Seven steps to confident family AI use.

The Quick-Start Guide

  • 1. Choose one approved learning tool and one general-use helper for the household
  • 2. Turn on parental or supervised settings before the first use
  • 3. For children under ~12, use AI together, not as a solo activity
  • 4. Ban sensitive inputs: full names + addresses, school records, passwords, health details
  • 5. Require one check against a book, teacher note, or trusted source before using AI for school
  • 6. Keep AI out of bedtime and emotional-distress moments
  • 7. Review monthly: what helped, what felt off, what settings need changing

Three Buckets in Daily Practice

  • GREEN bucket (learning tools): use freely with age-appropriate supervision
  • → Khan Academy Kids, Khanmigo, NSWEduChat, school-approved tools
  • AMBER bucket (general assistants): use with household rules and verification
  • → ChatGPT, Gemini — parental controls on, training off, check answers
  • RED bucket (companion/entertainment): use with extreme caution or avoid
  • → Character.AI — not for emotional support, time-limited, monitored

What Goes in a Family AI Agreement

  • Approved tools: which AI tools are allowed in our household?
  • Time rules: when can AI be used, and when is it off-limits?
  • Privacy rules: what information is never shared with AI?
  • Schoolwork rules: when must AI use be disclosed?
  • Emotional rules: "humans for feelings, AI for tasks"
  • Review schedule: we revisit this agreement every month
Activity

Draft Your Agreement

15 min

Draft a one-page Family AI Agreement: 1. List your approved tools (by bucket) 2. Set time boundaries (bedtime rule, quiet hours) 3. Write your privacy rule ("We never paste…") 4. Write your schoolwork rule ("We always disclose…") 5. Write your emotional boundary ("Humans for feelings…") If your child is old enough — write it together.

Habits

Ongoing Practice

Building AI literacy is a practice, not a one-off lesson.

The Monthly Review

  • Schedule 15 minutes once a month to review as a family
  • Check: are parental controls still correctly set? (Platforms update constantly)
  • Check: has your child started using any new AI tools?
  • Check: has anything felt off, uncomfortable, or surprising?
  • Check: do the family rules still make sense?
  • Update the Family AI Agreement if anything has changed

Free Resources for Families

  • Day of AI Australia — free, localised, family-facing AI literacy (dayofaiaustralia.com)
  • Khan Academy & Khan Academy Kids — free, safe, pedagogically strong
  • Experience AI — structured resources for ages 11–14 (experience-ai.org)
  • AI4K12 — open educator resources, useful for parent reference
  • Code.org — free AI materials across all grade levels
  • Good Things Australia's AI Literacy Hubs — for adults/parents in digitally excluded communities

8-Week Family Curriculum: Ages 8–11

  • Week 1: What AI is — spot AI in maps, search, games; make a "human vs machine" poster
  • Week 2: Search vs generate — test the difference between search results and AI answers
  • Week 3: Data and patterns — sorting game; discuss how examples affect outcomes
  • Week 4: Ask better questions — turn vague prompts into specific prompts together
  • Week 5: Check the answer — verify three AI facts using a book, teacher site or museum page
  • Week 6: Fairness and feelings — discuss bias, errors, and AI limitations

8-Week Family Curriculum: Ages 12–15

  • Week 1: AI landscape — compare school-approved, general-purpose, and companion tools
  • Week 2: How models fail — collect examples of hallucination and overconfidence
  • Week 3: Prompting for learning — use AI to explain, quiz and scaffold without copying
  • Week 4: Verification — check claims against trusted sources; practise disclosure
  • Week 5: Privacy and data — review terms, training settings, memory and deletion
  • Week 6: Deepfakes — analyse synthetic media and discuss sharing responsibility
Activity

Family AI Policy Sprint

20 min

The capstone activity — do this as a family: 1. Review the three-bucket framework together 2. Agree on approved tools, time rules, and privacy rules 3. Write a one-page Family AI Agreement 4. Each family member signs it 5. Set a date for your first monthly review This is your family's AI operating system. Review and update it regularly.

Family Reflection Rubric

  • Understanding: Can your child explain what AI is and what it can't do?
  • Verification: Do they check at least one source before trusting AI?
  • Privacy: Do they avoid sharing sensitive data and follow tool rules?
  • Reflection: Can they identify at least one ethical concern about AI use?
  • Use this as a family reflection tool — not a scorecard
  • Aligned with UNESCO's "understand / apply / create" progression

How to Know It's Working

  • Family conversations about AI at least once per fortnight
  • Safety/privacy settings completed on all family AI tools
  • Child can explain one difference between search and AI generation
  • At least one external source verified in AI-supported schoolwork
  • AI use disclosed where school rules require it
  • Reduction in unsupervised use of companion-style tools
Next

What Comes Next

Your pathway from here.

Your Immediate Action Items

  • Today: have one honest conversation with your child about their AI use
  • Today: check and set up parental controls on every AI platform
  • This week: establish the "never paste" rule and the verification habit
  • This week: set bedtime/quiet hours on all AI-enabled devices
  • This month: draft and agree on a Family AI Agreement
  • This month: schedule your first monthly family AI review

Recommended Next Courses

  • AI Fundamentals — understand how AI actually works (zero prerequisites)
  • Mastering AI Tools — deep dive into specific tools and workflows
  • AI Productivity Systems — build AI into your own daily work life
  • AI for Corporate Teams — if you want to champion AI at your workplace
  • Visit www.rupertchesman.com for all courses

Resources

  • Course materials: www.rupertchesman.com
  • eSafety Commissioner: www.esafety.gov.au
  • NSW AI for Parents: education.nsw.gov.au/schooling/parents-and-carers/artificial-intelligence
  • Day of AI Australia: dayofaiaustralia.com
  • All resources: www.rupertchesman.com/resources

Certificate Pathway

Complete all modules + family agreement + quiz = AI for Parents Certificate

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